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Radical Parents

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Hey girl can you just stop distracting me, just sit down i will give you what you want! Hey just shut up and don't say anything let me think! dumb! Hey don't touch that, are you deaf ! stupid child. You are a stupid child! Ugly child keep quite don't be foolish! ............................................................................................................ These are some and many more we call our children. Give them room to speak, respect them and they will respect to follow, The above words makes them feel insecure, create low self esteem and makes them insignificant. Your children's opinion is as important as yours, always create room for them to speak. Create a significant that they are important, appreciate their good attitude, thank them for helping at home, speak kind words to them, these things help them do better things in the society. Always correct behavior without striping them of their significant as a...
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Unbreakable

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There will always be someone trying to take your kids down, making them feel bad for their mistakes. There will always be someone messing your kids head around, watching to see them break. Don't let them put shame or fear on your kids. Always show and tell them how special and unique  they are always. Show them that they are strong Show them that they belong Open up their eyes and mind to see the best in them. Let them know they are and will always be UNBREAKABLE .
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Awesomeness of sibling(s)

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When I was growing up, about 3 years old, my mum introduced me to my younger sister. At first I was not happy, thought the little girl wants to steal the love of my mum and dad from me. we are quite different from each other, it was clear from the beginning how different we are, I was strong, tall, handsome I guess, while she was slim, small and ugly... however we learnt to accept each other and the difference between us ultimately creating one of the most balance relationship I have ever experienced. As we keep growing together in same house, eating same food and sleeping on same bed, it is fun having someone to talk to, play with and most times argue with, but this always brings us even closer. Some of the incredible siblings bonds are: 1.They can be our best friend 2.The lasting memories focuses on  good times 3.Bad times brings siblings even closer 4.They intuitively understand each other 5.Siblings are supportive especially later in life Each and everyone h...
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Little things that matter

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when I was a little girl I desired so much to hold my mum's hand. Most times, she says she just wants to visit a neighbor, I will cry to follow her and try so hard to hold her. It's been awhile now that I haven't gone out with my kids so we decided to take a stroll with the car down the street. I noticed how My boys rushed and jumped so hard to hold my two hands. I wanted to use the car but the cried saying "No,No,No,mummy lets go...lets go..."Seeing the joy within them I just followed as they dragged me forward. I do feel holding of hands make us feel wanted or special. I really don't know how my kids felt but I sure knew they were truly happy.
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SAMMY MY BABY

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Last night Samuel did something that made me beat him so bad. Picking up Samuel's dad a stone throw from mine, we together went to pick up Samuel from school. After two blocks away from his school compound, he asked, 'Mummy why do you hate me, why do you always shout at me even when am playing with other kids, you speak harshly to me? Yesterday I saw you with Dami playing and laughing with her, but you have never laughed with me... all you do is say bad things to me.' Samuel's daddy looked back where Samuel sat with his eyes open and his hands describing all his words. He turned back to continue reading his newspaper without paying attention at all. Samuel continues... 'Mummy you even shout at daddy... don't you like us..don't you love us? You smile and love other children more than me and daddy.. Oh my God.. those words hit me like a big rock... I need to stop this car.. Sammy what are you saying? 'Mummy, Mummy ,Yes, its the truth' he says lou...
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